Tuesday, February 10, 2009

When You Fall In Love With An Elder Man

"Love is blind", yup this is very true in case of love, one really don't bother whether the person we are falling in love with is younger, older or of the same age. As it is something which is beyond the boundary of any understanding, that's why love is called as the blind, as it is not about judging the person but loving him.

It has been noticed in the women that they are falling in love with the man older than her as the maturity factor in the man is the biggest factor of the crush for her. So, she loves to give her everything in the love for the man she is choosing. But why this trends is happening these days? From time immemorial the women are one who is tender at heart and they want someone who can really love her for what she is and she is getting insane for the man who does things like that. It is not that she hate the person of her age or younger to her but somehow she like elder man.

But why she likes the elder man. Maturity is the biggest factor. Yes, the woman knows that a mature person would be the one who would not only appreciate her beauty and remain loyal to her but she would be able to call that person hers forever, and that's what is making her go crazy for the mature man.

As long as the age gap is 10 years or so than there is no problem, but if the age gap is more than this than rather than getting flowed in the floods of emotion it would be best for you to take the judicious decision that what is right for you and what is not right for you. After all it the matter of your life, therefore, you should not take this crucial decision in haste and only when you decides to spend your whole life with the person than only you should go ahead and go on dating with the guy older than 10 years. Some other very interesting examples are also coming to fore.

So, what is going on in your mind? I know the age barrier is going on strongly in your mind. If the age gap is very big, than the problem is something can't be negated, yes it's a problem, because the age compatibility is the biggest factor for the attraction of the woman towards a man.

Women are getting married to the older man for the money also, or we can say that money is the biggest turning factor for the women as the money make the man stronger and wild and some women prefers the strength and wild partner as they can only quench their hunger of the mate.

So, once the decision is take for settling with an older partner try to take out time and take your own decision. Once the decision is taken don't hesitate to stick to it. Go on board and enjoy the decision after all, it's you who have taken this decision for your life and you are the only people who know better about you.

Nisha Sharma is staff writer at Womenbrands.com. She writes on women relationship and Psychology. Visit http://womenbrands.com for more about women.

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1 comment:

  1. support u!U r right!I run into this situation~

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